Thursday, January 22, 2015

Taken For Seeking Medical Care

Bad Parents Sought Medical Care
photo credit miracles for Justina/ FB
Okay,  here's a big story about a girl named Justina Pelletier.  I am going to try to water this big story down.  She was an active child and even a figure skater, but around the age of 16 she became sick with a flu and was taken to the hospital.  It was here she was diagnosed with a mitochondrial disease (genetically related that causes weakness in the muscles).  She was referred to ,by her physicians, to seek medical care at the local Children's Hospital (Boston's Childrens).   It was at this hospital where new doctors decided that Justina had a psychiatric disorder and her medical mystery was more or less, not real. 

The hospital decided to get social services involved, blaming the parents for being "too active" in pursuing healthcare matters for their child (aka overmedicalizing).  The family lost custody for almost 1 1/2 while the child became weaker in state care at a local mental hospital.  She is now w/c bound!  The parents wer now allowed only weekly visits and weekly phone calls.  

Even if the parents were over zealous... is that a bad thing?  Trying to find out why your child is sick? Mental health or not?   Isn't that what you are supposed to do?  Do you believe parents could be so overmedicalizing that it would cause their older child to become non ambulatory? 

I watched videos with interviews.  The girl appears to have some sort of neurological disorder.  Her speech seems dysarthric and she is in a wheelchair.   Let's say it was mental illness and her parents were to blame,  why didn't she heal or at least dramatically improve out of the parent's care?   So if it was mental illness and the parents were in denial,  was it really their fault she was weakening?  Serious questions to a very serious situation.  She is home now after 1 1/2, still disabled, but looking happy!

Smoking Pot is How Unsafe?!

Smoking Pot is How UNSAFE?!
photo source reasons.com
Little Alexandria was removed from her home after her parents admitted to smoking marijuana in the home after the little girl went to sleep.  Yep, REMOVED!    Now she is dead and her state mommy and daddy will face no consequences.   She suffered a massive head injury in foster care.. the foster parents were arrested but what about child protective services (her temporary parents).  Didn't they fail to protect??

While in care with her parents she was never sick, never hospitalized and never had a serious injury.  Smoking pot is a crime, we all know that to be true.  But is it more dangerous to a child than drinking?  Is it more criminal than cheating on taxes, speeding, making an illegal U turn,  lying on a legal form.. etc?  Was it worth removing the child?    Worth the trauma of being removed from her parents? Worth her life?

My suggestion.  Have the social worker's own children removed!  She obviously didn't protect this child in her care.. she ignored the warning signs.. she was a poor judge of character and let the children live in unsafe condition....  What do you think?

Fame and money won't protect you!

Fame and Money Won't Protect you!
Yes, even Will Smith isn't immune to the wrath of CPS.  This time it's Los Angeles County and their daughter Willow Smith.  Apparently the photo above triggered a CPS investigation.  Willow was 13 at the time and was posing with her very close friend (not boyfriend or sexual partner).  It was meant to be artistic and fun.   An anonymous person called CPS regarding the picture and the picture ALONE prompted the investigation.  No one was naked, nothing was sexual and I'm just not getting it.  Yes, their was a topless boy on the bed.. but he had pants on, she was clothed.  Seriously,  I don't get it.  The case wasn't immediately close as I believe the worker came to the house at least twice..
 

What kid of mom tatoos?

Mom tattoos heart on daughter!
Yep, social services deployed over a small heart tattoo on a 12 year old girl.  Ann Yates, residing in North Carolina, tattooed her own daughter is also facing criminal charges for tattooing a minor.   Ok,  think about it...  a teenage child can get nose job, a newborn can have a cosmetic surgery known as a CIRCUMCISION, a school aged can have their ears pinned back..   I'm not a fan of tattoos,  but what's the logic here??? Criminal charged for breaking  law.. maybe!  But social services???

The Sun Tan Mom

CPS Deployed for allowing (or so they thought) a child in a sun tanning bed!
photo credit Julio Cortez/ AP
Do you remember the suntan lady?  (Patricia Krentcil) She made national headlines a few years back as she is addicted to tanning beds.  Well,  she was ARRESTED after police accused her of bringing her 5 year old daughter into a tanning salon.  But she didn't!  She reports that should would never bring her red haired, fair-skinned daughter to a sun tan bed.  CPS was deployed and a case was wrongly opened against this bronzed mom.  She was burned OUTSIDE while playing!  Shocking!  It happens!  Thank goodness the child wasn't removed from the home!

Bad Sunburn

Two year old toddler gets SUNBURN!
 
Here's a good one!  Daddy Jones takes his toddler out in the sun but failed to put on sunblock.  He has been arrested with criminal abuse charges.  His son has been removed from his care.. not sure the status of the case to date.  The toddler apparently had large blisters on his back and shoulders.   This happens sometimes..  for instance, you can burn on a cloudy down but not everyone knows this.  Also,  it's not easy to see a sunburn while it's happening..   Yeah, the dad messed up,  but criminal neglect?????
source.. parentdish.com
 

 
Under Investigation for Walking Home from School

 
Six and ten year old neglected for walking home and parents are being investigated by CPS.   The parents are advocates for "range free parenting" which means they allow their kids to play freely and don't believe in helicopter parenting.  They allow their children to venture freely but too far of course.  They want to give them the childhood they experienced and enjoyed.  A time where kids were free to play outside alone.  But walking home from school, the police picked up the children after someone reported them walking alone.

Their mom a climate scientist and their father a physicist, these parents aren't dummies and put a lot of thought into allowing their children walk home from school freely.  They also know child abduction is a rare event and car fatalities are a common event.  They feel walking home is safer and indeed it is.  Well, the lecture from the police wasn't enough.  Child protect services were summoned to investigate if the children were properly supervised.  In their state,  children younger than 8 must be supervised by at least a child older than 13 in dwellings, enclosures and vehicles.   The father initially refused to talk with CPS until his lawyer was present, but CPS threatened if they didn't comply they would remove the children.  He talked!

The CPS said they wanted to follow up with another "home visit".  The mother didn't want to cooperate with the 'home' visit as she felt violated as this was a community concern not related to the care in the home. Eventually they agreed to an office visit.  I'll have to follow up on this story,  but most likely it will be removed without removal??.. most likely, I'm not so sure anymore.